bla bla club

Had u ever heard of OWC?
or better known as obedient wives club
For me, it's such a non-sense n i totally disagree with it!
What wives should act as 1st class prostitute to avoid their husband going out "happy"?!
It is necessary?
OMG. don't they know that both woman & man are at the same level?
Why all the problems are arising from woman but not the man?
If the man chose to marry u, he must has to be royal to u and shouldn't betray u,
but once they betrayed u, the relationship cannot be saved anymore.


Thus, no matter how well the wives perform on bed does not help at all.
It's the matter of communications between each other!
(as stated by Dr Paul Jambunathan in thestar)


Well, i like the statement made by Dr Jambu,
yeah, i listened to his talk about mental hygiene before in Monash University ,
thus my eyes open BIG BIG while i saw his name on the newspaper.


So, conclusion,
i know we woman are always emotional but sometime we need to judge love & relationship at another side which include logical thinking and must be realistic.
Thus, we won't be fooled by those relationship things anymore~


p/s: i just here to share my opinion, no offences to OWC.

一個人

一個人的時候，不熱鬧，可以靜靜的觀賞自己想觀賞的風景，沒有人會打擾

     

一個人的時候，很自由，可以做自己想做的事，沒有人會阻撓

一個人的時候，很堅強，可以在困難的面前迎難而上，沒有人會諷刺

  

一個人的時候，很特別，可以學會一個人成長 ，沒有人會來阻止

一個人的時候，只要你有想做的事，你就不會孤單

一個人的時間，只要你樂觀的面對生活 ，你就不會覺得疲憊

一個人的時候，只要你對生活充滿了信心，你就不會覺得失敗

其實有時一個人可以很好

它可以讓我們學會怎樣一個人去解決苦難

學會怎樣一個人時讓自己快樂

學會怎樣一個人時讓自己幸福

學會一個人怎樣去做人

學會一個怎樣去享受生活

學會一個人怎樣去成長

學會一個人怎樣去追求自己的人生目標

d(^_^)b

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The video from my roomate: YuKi Lai ♥ B211 ♥

This is the video my roomate Miku made for me during my b'day,

actually i am finding ways to link it to my blog at sidebar but i duno how to make it..

Just can share as a new posting here, wuwu..

Thanks a lot Miku & Yin Ling ^ ^

I am a bit "late" coz my b'day ady passed so long only i shared this on my blog,paise ya :p

The Lonely Hornbill

The story is like this:

One day, while i sit in my home during study week,

i heard some weird noise coming from outside,

i never heard this kind of sound before, so i asked my sis what is it,

then she answer "sabah dai tou jiok lar",

i was stucked, what? here got hornbill? i am wondering...

so i run to outside with my camera try to capture it if got any,

hahahaha! yeah, i saw it, on the rooftop of my neighbor house..

after i checked on9, i found out this species is Palawan Hornbill which is an endemic species originate from Philipines..wikipedia mentioned normally we will find them in pairs or small families...

But what i saw was a "Lonely Hornbill",

maybe it still searching for its partner,haha~

wohoo~~~they appears in my hometown!  XD

The Lost Husband -thestar

*retrieved 27 march 2011 at http://thestar.com.my/lifestyle/story.aspfile=/2011/3/27/lifefocus/8171053&sec=lifefocus

The lost husband

By SERENITY

SHE was a waitress, he a GM. She was 21 years his junior.

I did not find out about the affair. He confessed. Why? I guessed he did not want to feel guilty for cheating. But he did not care about hurting me. He said he would not leave this family but if I could not accept the affair, I could leave. I accepted it because alone, I would not be able to provide for the children.

I asked him what was wrong in our marriage. He said I was a good wife but he could get so much pleasure from a young girl and he could not live without her. To keep her for himself, he asked her to stop work and maintained her fully with a car and apartment. I still had to work for this family. He bought me a car too, only because he now had no time for me and the children.

I was devastated. I stabbed myself. He said, “You want to die. Why don’t you stab deeper? Now, you can’t die.” He laughed and left me bleeding.

He changed completed. He never used to scold me but then started using foul words even if I just mentioned her name. He used to be home every night for dinner with the family, but after that, we would have dinner only on birthdays or once in two or three months.

He no longer comes come home every night, and when he does, it is late at night. On Sundays, he rushes off after breakfast to do the marketing for her and their son.

I have kept this secret from my friends and family but his family (especially his mother) welcomed her with open arms. Birds of a feather flock together is all I can say of him and his family.

He continues to come home, out of guilt. He continues to provide for us, out of a sense of responsibility. But when he is home, it is just an empty shell. You can see from his face, his heart is not with us. She calls him and he calls her. It hurt in the beginning, but it does not matter anymore. I have lived like this for 15 years and my heart has stopped bleeding. I went through hell in the past.

I lost my husband but I gained insight into life. I learned to forgive. I try to be amicable whenever he comes home. I want peace in my life now. I can erase the pain, I can stop the tears, but the scars from the stabbing remain. Forgiving is one thing, forgetting is another.

Now as I reflect, I count my blessings. I still have a roof over my head. I have an old junk that can still ferry me around. I have a part-time job to subsidise my EPF savings for my living. I am in good health. I still have him in times of need, but my most blessed consolation is my children. Now that they are grown, they understand and love me very much for all that I have gone through. And I thank them.

After reading this, i really feel sorry for her, she has been went through a difficult stage in life. But her spirit never die, she is strong, she able to stand with it for so long, imagine 15 years! her husband is with another girl and what can she do? she is a good mother & a good wife, i really salute her. Although she lost a husband, but she gained the love from her children which she deserved for.i love this sentence "Forgiving is one thing, forgetting is another", how she going to forget all these? anyways, wish she will live happily, never look back =)

三月里的幸福饼

“叶散的时候，你明白欢聚，
花谢的时候，你明白青春。
花会谢，叶会散，繁花甜酒，华衣美服，都在哀悼一段早逝的爱。”


一口气看完了八章的《三月里的幸福饼》
不知何时爱上张小娴作品
看后感：正如文章里面的“十分酸和一分甜”。。


她纠缠在他和他之间
她爱他，可是她却选择了另外一个他，
最后他们还是分开，
原来她爱着那个他也是喜欢着她，
可是到头来还是有缘无份。。
最后大家都没有结局，只知道她会过得很好 。。。


有兴趣可以看看：
http://amyxiaoxian.blogspot.com/2010/10/blog-post_629.html




三月终于到了，
三月的第一天就有一个好消息，
我们7thcollege的choir拿冠军！wohoo~
真的替他们感到荣幸和高兴
7th终于打败常胜军9th，
参了两年的choir，今年的我没参了，
所以第一次以观众的身份观赏那么精彩的演出，
你们真的行的咯~再一次恭喜 ^ ^